What is a MIAM (mediation information and assessment meeting)?
A MIAM is a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. Before applying to court about arrangements for a child, most people must attend one unless an exemption applies. It is a meeting with an authorised family mediator, who explains mediation and assesses whether it could work for you. It is not the mediation itself.
Who has to attend?
An applicant must normally attend a MIAM before applying, unless an exemption applies. A person responding to an application is expected to attend one too.
Who can hold a MIAM?
Only an authorised family mediator can. The Family Mediation Council keeps a directory of accredited mediators.
What are the exemptions?
The rules list exemptions, for example where there is domestic abuse or an urgent need for the court’s help. The detail is in the Family Procedure Rules and Practice Direction 3A, so read the current wording or take advice before relying on an exemption.
Can I get help with the cost?
A MIAM and mediation may be publicly funded for people who are eligible. There has also been a Family Mediation Voucher Scheme, which contributed £500 towards mediation costs when it launched in 2021. Check the current amount and eligibility, because they can change.
What happens after a MIAM?
If mediation is not suitable, or it does not lead to agreement, you can apply to court on form C100. Some applicants and respondents must also complete form FM5, described in our guide to the forms C100, C1A, C7 and FM5.
Related guides
- Family court forms explained: C100, C1A, C7 and FM5
- What happens at the first hearing (FHDRA)?
- Family court glossary: plain-English terms for fathers
- Free checklist: your first 30 days in Family Court
- When You Can’t See Your Child: the book
Sources
- Practice Direction 12B, paragraphs 2.8, 5.3 to 5.7 and 8.1 (justice.gov.uk)
- Practice Direction 3A and Family Procedure Rules Part 3 (justice.gov.uk)
- Family Procedure Rules, Practice Direction Updates 2021 and 2026 (justice.gov.uk)
Sources checked 20 September 2026. Procedure changes, so check that each source is current before relying on it.
This guide gives general information about the standard process in England and Wales. It is not legal advice, and procedure changes. Some court areas use a different process, the Child Focused Model, so check your notice of hearing. Full disclaimer